ok so my cell doesn't want to come for youth outing. should i just accept it or should i persuade them. if i manage to persuade them and they end up not being happy there, is there even a point? but if they don't go, they'll not get to interact with the youth and it'll be even more difficult to fit in no? it's a vicious cycle. it takes someone to help u fit in yes. but personal effort must be put in too right? or maybe it's that we've/ i've disappointed them too many times that they lost hope totally? why am i trying so hard to persuade them to go anyway. what would Jesus do?