You know, Jesus didn't complain when He died on the cross for me. He could very well say things like what people nowadays will say like "What is this? Why am I dying for a sinner? She did so many wrong things and I didn't. Why am I being punished instead? Not fair. Go punish her. " but He didn't. So who am I to complain?
When we complain, we're telling God that we think He's not doing a good job. That He should do this instead of that. We're telling God what to do. We think we can do better? I don't think so.
Can I be your friend?